To receive a blessing during communion, approach the altar with your hands crossed over your chest.

To receive a blessing instead of Holy Communion, approach the altar or minister during communion distribution. Cross your arms over your chest, palms flat against opposite shoulders, to indicate you wish to receive a blessing. The minister will typically offer a brief blessing or sign of the cross over you, rather than the Eucharist.

Understanding the Practice

Many faith traditions offer an opportunity for individuals not receiving communion to still participate meaningfully at the altar. This gesture allows those who are not eligible or prepared for communion to receive a blessing from the minister. It acknowledges their presence and desire for spiritual engagement without partaking in the sacrament itself.

Steps for Receiving a Blessing

Follow these simple steps to receive a blessing during communion:
  1. Approach the Minister: When it is your turn, walk forward in the communion line.
  2. Signal Your Intent: As you reach the minister, cross both arms over your chest, typically with palms on opposite shoulders. This is the universally recognized signal.
  3. Receive the Blessing: The minister will usually offer a brief blessing, perhaps saying "May God bless you" or making the sign of the cross over you.
  4. Return to Your Seat: After receiving the blessing, bow your head slightly and return to your seat respectfully.

When a Blessing is Appropriate

Receiving a blessing is suitable in several situations:
  • When you are not fully initiated in the specific faith tradition.
  • If you are a child who has not yet received your first communion.
  • If you do not meet the eligibility requirements for communion within that tradition (e.g., not baptized, not properly disposed).
  • When you simply prefer to receive a blessing rather than communion on a particular occasion.

Comparison of Participation Methods

Method Typical Action Primary Purpose
Receiving Communion Approach, receive Eucharist in hand or on tongue. Full participation in the sacrament; spiritual nourishment.
Receiving a Blessing Approach with crossed arms; receive ministerial blessing. Spiritual engagement for those not receiving communion.
Remaining in Pews Kneel, sit, or stand prayerfully in your seat. Quiet reflection and prayer; respectful observation.